Williams Syndrome Wednesday: Permission to Let It Be

Sometimes it’s nice to hear someone say “Things are ok as they are.” This week’s dose of chillax came from the special feeding clinic that baby Obi now attends.

Feeding has been a huge struggle right from day one. We finally got her eating pureed baby food at about a year. We’ve been trying to increase textures but not having any luck.

And do you know what the experts said? Let her eat purees. Thicken them slowly over months and months. Stop pushing her to move ahead faster than she can.

It’s ok.

You know, it’s not ok for me sometimes. It’s not ok that all her friends are running and starting to talk and growing so big and she’s still sitting tall, hanging out, screaming from time to time and eating purees.

It’s not ok for me, but she is perfectly happy. She’s doing what she’s doing. She’s loving life.

You know what else they said?

It’s ok.

It’s ok that you’re disappointed that things aren’t going as you planned. It’s ok that you feel sad, jealous, frustrated…whatever you feel.

They also said she looks good, healthy, feeding well, eating in step with her current development.

So I’m gonna stop trying a million ways to get her to eat what she’s not developmentally ready to eat and I’m just gonna feed her what she likes. Pureed food, some puffs, some pasta stars, some mum mum crackers and I’m gonna cut myself some slack.

And I’m feeling OK about that.

1 Comment

  1. Amanda ~ MommiesFirst Box

    April 4, 2014 at 10:56 am

    Sometimes, we just need to pick our battles. We are so glad to hear that you are accepting life as it is and realizing that you have one happy little girl and that everything is going to be OK! It is hard to not cut ourselves slack sometimes, but it is SO important to! 🙂

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